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The journey of the dominant and submissive can be both a physical and emotional rollercoaster, and us Kittens are delicate beings.
The relationship between a Dom and Sub functions because of the roles they play. The submissive role can be any gender, at any extreme.
Some submissives limit their role to sex while it is a large part of their identity to others. But it is also important to address how that power should be handled and how to take into consideration the emotions of a new submissive.
Not only does a submissive give themselves physically to their Dominant, but they give themselves mentally, too. To be able to put their trust in someone to take them all the way down the kinky rabbit hole and bring them all the way back up again with their dignity intact is not a decision to be made lightly, you need to know how to treat a submissive.
Women and men have equal worth
But if she chooses you, then be sure to get to know how to treat your sub rather than going in blind. Talk, discuss your likes and dislikes, know when no means no and when no means yes. In doing so, the Dominant will allow the submissive to embark on a journey of self-discovery that can be truly enlightening for both of them. Oh, and not to mention the most intense orgasms you will ever experience with submissive sex.
Once trust is established, the submissive slowly begins to let go. And what a beautiful journey it is.
To serve her Master is to silence her mind and inspire her body; nothing else matters because she is all that matters to him. She is exposed but free, because she knows she is safe with him, and even when participating in the most depraved and disgusting acts, she is more beautiful than ever because he can see straight into her soul, her vulnerability so positively endearing yet so wildly sexy at the same time.
It is the greatest gift a submissive can give to her Dominant, and one that should not be treated flippantly. It should be noted that no man should take on a submissive if he is not willing to accept the responsibility that comes with it.
The comedown from subspace is ever so bittersweet. The fragility remains, and this is where she needs to know she matters, not just as a sub, but as a person.
They are certainly more intense than your average relationship- you invest yourself emotionally, and give a lot more of yourself to the other person, a side not just anyone gets to see. And that is why I say handle with care. It can be easy to find yourself going through the motions in some cases, forgetting that your submissive may not always have the emotional strength some days to carry out certain tasks or duties.
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Fuck her like she is unbreakable, but care for her like she is a precious stone: rare and beautiful. Your submissve may feel vulnerable and exposed, but this time the feelings are of confusion and uncertainty rather than freedom and comfort.
A Dominant needs their submissive just as much as their sub needs them — they are a team. Both will likely experience highs and lows during their journey, so it is important for both to communicate openly, and give themselves entirely without fear.