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Research on conversational patterns shows that in everyday contexts, refusing is never done by "just saying no".
Most refusals do not even contain the word "No". Yet, in non-sexual situations, no one seems to have trouble understanding.
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Because this pattern is so consistent, and because it contrasts with the pattern for the alternative response, acceptance, refusals are immediately recognisable as. In fact, the evidence suggests that people can tell a refusal is coming as soon as they register the initial hesitation.